[Serious] What advice would you give for me to improve my life?

Since wallowing is seen as cringe, what advice would you give me to improve my life. I'll give as much info without doxxing myself as I can so we can ignore the stereotypical BS that people give.

Transition related shit: 31. FTM. 11 years on T. Post top surgery. Not eligible for phalloplasty due to skin condition. Never dated. No friends.

Life related shit: 2 Bachelor's degrees (Bio and Nursing); 2 full time jobs. Full-time sole caregiver for family member. No, I cannot put them in a home, no we cannot move. I cannot afford a 2 bedroom apartment anywhere where nurses get paid more than peanuts.

Only ever had "luck" on apps where I revealed I was trans and it's obvious why. Have only had 1 guy interested in me and was not interested after revealing I was trans. I live somewhere with a large LGBT community But it is notoriously racist and anti-trans male. This isn't me being negative. Many trans men have participated in gay male spaces once passing just to be put out.

Chew me up. Idc.