If a DA returns… and that is if..

I posted my story here this morning, and having read some of the experiences here, I’d say that my ex gf fits the DA category. I’m somewhat anxious, and the relationship shone a searchlight on it, where my brain was over analysing so much. She maintained I was the best person she had met, the love, affection, caring, kindness and security, she had never experienced, and she said she loved me deeply. Despite wanting the full relationship, settling down etc, etc, she broke off with I don’t know if I want a relationship, and that she’d not be dating for a long time following me. She ended the call with “I love you“. ..now if she did come back, I have it in my head to lay out conditions, namely that she individually and we collectively do counselling. Does anyone else have experience of this, would it land okay, would she want to “make it work“? TIA ❤️