46 [M4R] #BayArea married guy seeking a close connection

Hi, I’m 46yo married in the Bay Area peninsula, dating single, and looking to meet another person in an open marriage and in a similar stage in life as myself, someone in their 30’s or 40’s. I’m new to ENM poly, and would love to meet another person for good conversation that’s inspiring and invigorating!

I’m mellow and maybe a little timid at first, but can really get deep in conversation once I’m comfortable with you. I have an average height, slim build, enjoy 2-3 mile jogs when I find the time, and I try to exercise at home on most days. Personally I think I have average looks, but others seem to think I’m handsome. I enjoy talking about science and pretty much anything about life in general. I also like hearing about other people’s projects and what they’re into, and I try being a good sounding board when others need it. :)

I’ve only dated women, but I feel I may be pansexual and would be open to meeting anyone that’s in touch with their sensitive side. I’m demisexual looking for another that wants a genuine connection before exploring more. Also I’m a switch, open to many things if it gets to that.

I’m a busy professional and have 2 great kids, so I wouldn’t be available for frequent meet-ups, but I think I can do once per week or so if we hit it off and live close to each other.

Feel free to message me if what I wrote feels right to you.