My [24F] boyfriend [25M] saw texts from my friends about upcoming bachelorette party.

Soooo, I (24F) have a friends bachelorette party coming up. My boyfriend (25M) was a little sketched out about the upcoming festivities but after discussions about it he ended up being fine with it, on the condition there are no strippers. I was totally fine with this as I didn’t care about strippers and at that point there was no plan for any strippers.

Well a few weeks ago one of the girls brings up getting some strippers. It gained momentum and most girls ended up saying we should do it for the bride. So, now we are locked in for strippers. I was trying to figure out the best way to approach and discuss this with him.

Unfortunately, before I could, texts starting being sent to the group chat. Pictures of hot and in some cases nude male strippers. The girls (just having fun) were also responding with some pretty wild comments. My boyfriend somehow saw this text chain and saw the pictures of nude strippers with comments like “I’ll bring the tape measure if you all bring the handcuffs” and “girls, get ready for giant cock in your face”. Not great, I know, but these texts were pretty much just in good fun. My boyfriend is pissed and I think he may end it with me because of this. I don’t know what to do. I’m thinking about not going.