Was my husband exploited by the startup?
My husband (20+ years as a Principal Architect) was recruited by a startup to work ~100 hours/month as part-time CTO, with a promise to join full-time after 1.5 years. His employer allowed it because we know the owner personally.
They offered 2% advisory equity over 4 years + a token salary (4% of his real pay). But his work wasn’t “advisory” — he handled architecture, daily team support, coding, vendor coordination, mentoring, everything.
When it was time to bring him on full-time, their investor backed out and they fired the whole team. My husband still stayed for another year, doing full coding for 6 months and maintenance + pitch support for 6 months.
After they finally got funding, he declined the full-time role because of the instability. Then the founder moved the goalposts and said he’d only get 20% of the original 2% if he worked another year part-time. He did that — and now another investor backed out.
Now they’re telling him he must keep advising because he “holds” that 20%.
At this point it feels like they used him for 2+ years of cheap engineering + CTO-level work and gave almost no equity in return. People I spoke to said “advisory equity” was the wrong structure entirely for what he contributed.
Is this normal startup behavior, or did the founder just take advantage of him?
Posted Dec 1, 2025, 8:16 PM UTC