I think I'm undateable

Male in my 30s and I don't have a problem getting interests from women. I can dance, I make good money, I have many talents (surfing, music, sports etc etc).

The problem? I can't seem to keep anyone around. I just hate talking. It's like a waste of energy to me. It never feels meaningful and I always want to be somewhere else when I talk. I think its more through the phone but I also don't like to be part of group conversations. Even when I do talk, I tend to bail out after a few minutes. It just bores me.

It's my kryptonite, and from what I can tell, NO woman likes a man that doesn't like to talk. Just none. I can't seem to find these people.

Even on this sub, most introverted women seem to have extroverted bfs or want extroverted men.

In some ways, I feel alone in this world, and it sucks because I love my life