34 [M4F] #SanFrancisco #BayArea #CA #EastBay - Seeking a genuine emotional connection and discreet affair partner

I’m a fit, married 34M—5’9”, 160 lbs, athletic build—looking for a woman who wants a true affair partner, not a casual arrangement.

I’m seeking a mutual, emotionally fulfilling connection: someone to share easy, unguarded conversations, genuine companionship, and the comfort of being fully ourselves without pretense.

My situation allows a full weekday together or a few hours on weekends, with daily texting and sharing the details of our lives. I’m a good listener who genuinely cares about your well-being and brings a warm, positive presence.

My marriage has been emotionally and physically distant for years, leaving me craving the intimacy of knowing and being known. I’ve had a meaningful affair before, and what made it work was the depth of our emotional bond. Physical intimacy follows naturally from that connection, but it’s the mutual understanding and investment that matter most to me.

I want a partner in a similar situation—someone seeking the attentive conversations, validation, and closeness that’s missing elsewhere. Discretion and OPSEC are non-negotiable, and I have no interest in disrupting anyone’s life circumstances.

If you’re looking for a man who will invest in getting to know you deeply, match your energy, and create a space where you can feel truly seen and appreciated, I’d like to hear from you. What specifically are you seeking in an affair partner?