No one seems to be interested in romance

Idk if other people are struggling with this aspect of looking for other partners, but man I'm tired 😮‍💨 I'm (31f) a hopeless romantic but it feels like I'm the only one interested in the romance. Sex seems to be the most important thing on poly/emn men's minds and it's frustrating me. Or at least the ones I've encountered online and in person seem to only want that. I'm not looking for advice 🫶🏻 just wanted to vent