28 [M4F] #East - Dom with a hint of sadist looking for a girl for a fun spanking & impact play dynamic

Hi all,

I’m looking for a masochist or impact play lover who’d love to build a regular dynamic or friendship based on hard spanking or impact play.

Ideally this would be a person who wants to concentrate on the spanking / impact play only and doesn’t necessarily want anything else outside of that such as sex. I’m not looking for sex or any sexual release as part of this for myself as for me the impact play is the main thing.

I can cater to different levels of experience for a sub. I can range from lighter spanking sessions all the way for a newbie wanting to dip their toes in this world, all the way up to hard impact play sessions depending on the person and the level of prep we undertake. I’m keen to make sure it’s fun for us both and that we can vibe well together, so I’d want to take some time for us to get to know each other (and trust each other too).

I’m also open to subs / dynamics based on discipline or meeting goals for yourself, with the spanking then becoming more of a punishment thing. Alternatively if you just like the intense release that comes from a hard impact session, or just want to try it casually, then that works for me too!

Aftercare is a big thing for me, and given how intense a spanking or impact session can be, it is vitally important that we’d engage in aftercare to ensure that we both have a reset and can relax after a session.

As for me, I’m a Londoner born and raised in London, who’s fiercely loyal to his friends and likes to pull a joke here and there. Sfw wise, I’m into movies and tv shows, catching up with friends, going out to eat / trying new restaurants, cars, tech and more!

If you’re interested or just want to have a chat about what I’ve posted then do let me know!

Kinks are: spanking, impact play, bondage, cuffs, gags, blindfolds, discipline and more!