Stop obsessing over someone you just met

Hi everyone,

I’m having a spiral in bad feelings lately. Met someone a few months ago, have a really nice vibe together when we see each other, always kissing and hanging with each other when meet with friends. We meet only in group, never alone.

The thing is, I know she is not right for me, we are not compatible at all on different things but still she’s driving me crazy. If we don’t see each other in the weekends, we don’t text or spend time together alone.

I’m really happy on my own when i’m single, having fun and a really good social life, a lot of hobbies, and I do have options but mostly i’m not interested.

How do you guys cope with not letting your mood depend on someone else every time I meet someone I like? It’s driving me crazy…