26 [nb4m] VA/North America - seeking long-term love and warmth

Everyone loves a bulleted list format, right?

Me:

• AFAB nonbinary, demisexual
• seeking a long-term, monogamous relationship
• 5'4", here is what I look like with bonus cat picture. I like to keep my hair fun colors.
• leftist, non-religious, don't drink or smoke
• childfree. I do not want children in any form, ever.
• AuDHD legend and icon. I have all A grades and haven't put away any of my clean laundry in months.
• first year college student online full-time, hoping to go into biology after transfer
• I have three cats (that's 54 claws, by the way)
• big insomniac, so my sleep schedule is inconsistent. Would be nice to have a reason to be up earlier, though.

Personality:

• introverted, shy, a bit of a homebody
• mildly brainrotted sense of humor
• sensitive, overly empathetic, and romantic
• very straightforward
• the planner of most groups, but never willingly
• if you're into this, my love language is quality time, I'm a Leo sun, Cancer moon, and Aries rising, and my personality type is INTJ-T. I just think quizzes are a fun pastime.

Hobbies and interests:

• plant-neglecting. I can hardly call it keeping, but they are still alive.
• casual games. I am moderately obsessed with Powerwash Simulator.
• reading. Lately, just keeping up with a couple of manga and webcomics, but I like fantasy and horror novels as well when I have the brain space. My favorite series is The Locked Tomb.
• some favorite shows and movies are BoJack Horseman, Scavengers Reign, seasons 1-3 of The Boys and no more, seasons 1-2 of Killing Eve and no more, Invincible (also the only superhero comic I've read), Anchorman, She-ra and the Princesses of Power, Search Party (iconic), and Rango (arguably more iconic).
• doing crafts, like those terribly long diamond art pictures. Painful, yet addictive.

You:

• identify as male
• about 26-32
• living in North America
• looking for a long-term, monogamous relationship
• also childfree and at least left-leaning
• not a smoker. Tobacco products specifically are a hard no.
• have the time to devote to building a real relationship and willingness to take things slowly
• not solely interested in women, because I am not a woman. I shouldn't have to point this out.
• good direct communicator
• kind, caring, patient, preferably more laid back
• optional: cool beard, burly/stocky body type, wants to play Biped or Portal 2 with me, remembers Buzz Jr. Robojam

Please tell me about yourself (as in your personality, values, what you're looking for, etcetera) if you message.