36 [M4F] looking for casual online friends to chat to and have sex with :)

Hi all, I want to make some new fwbs to hang out with and chat to. I want friends I can chat with and have fun with, but also who are sex positive and don't feel the need to have any hangups about getting off with each other when we feel like it. If you're a person who likes showing off and getting praise in a safe private space with a person you trust, then I'll be an endless source of compliments and affection. But I do like just talking as close friends beyond that as well :)

I'm kinda way too tired to deal with putting on any masks or pretense. I don't like anything fake and contrived, I don't like fake effort or feigned super high emotions, just honesty. I like the sense of safety and acceptance that comes with boundaries down. I tend to get along with neurodiverse girls well because they kinda get it and get the idea of not having to play pretend and mask all the time.

so why I'm in this sub rather than just r4r or make new friends - I basically really like having friends to chat to and hang out with, but where the boundaries are down and nobody has hangups about sexual stuff. If we get along great and we're opposite gender then sex shouldn't have to be this big avoided subject. Everyone masturbates, and if you have an opposite sex friend who you think is attractive then it makes just as much sense to masturbate with them as it does to do on your own. If i like someone as a person and genuinely connect and get along with them, i will probably get hard over them sometimes and thats okay. Close friends are allowed to be close and feel comfortable around each other. So if you like that kind of open dynamic as well, we'll probably get along great. That doesn't mean I'll bug you for sex every time we talk, it just means I don't want to hide it from you if I'm in the mood and thinking about how good you look naked.

anyway, thats kinda my rant that i probably found the wrong words for. lol
I like chatting about any and all wholesome stuff too. I like animals, i like nature, i like literally just hearing about your day and talking through what happened and how you feel about it. I like being nice to people. i do work a lot and am tired a lot of the time, but thats exactly why at home I need to be able to just let go and not put any effort into anything, especially holding up false hangups. Just lets be comfortable together sometimes :)

come reach out if this kinda resonates :) tell me about yourself and what you're into, I like listening :)