Oof (tw for sort of racism?)

My Mom is the only one I’m out to, and she believes me acting on being trans is a sin. She said I’d never be a boy, that I’m a girl (x5). And that me being trans would make my brother uncomfortable, so I need to wear something feminine to his wedding.

All in all, it was a very hurtful, one sided conversation in which I sat in silence and nodded along. It hurt, and I felt super alone, but I expected it, so whatever.

Here’s the kicker: she compared me being trans to her dating a black guy one time while in the Bible Belt??? Like I should choose to act and be feminine so I can be a “good mom” and so my “future kids will grow up in a good home” just like she chose not to have kids with him because her kids would be mixed and that would’ve been hard????

Uncomfortable as hell, I had no clue what to say to that.