39 [M4F] #Philly/NJ - Be my 40th birthday present.

Hi! Hope whoever is reading this is having a good day and that you find your person. :)

I’m 5’10”. A bit overweight but have been getting under control. I promise I’m a good preorder candidate. I can explain my health history when we get to that point . Dark blonde/brown, beard trimmed to 1/2” constantly, I’m graying but not bald.

The list of things.

• I’m a homebody but I also like going out. Zoos, museums, aquarium, show/concerts, and Philly sports are my typical outings if I pick but also love seeing my partner enjoy themselves in things I may not be fully interested in.
• I enjoy playing video games but don’t really play anything right now. Just focusing on myself.
• I’m a quieter person in larger groups but I absolutely love going to concerts and other loud places. I just need time to recharge after.
• I’m in Infosec and would be considered highly successful by a lot of people.
• I’ve been told I ask too many questions when getting to know people. I like having a dynamic and everything that entails but I try to build a strong foundation first.
• Not a phone talking person, prefer texting over phone, but in person talking over texting. Have no problems with talking in online games and such. Just find the phone awkward.
• My love languages are physical touch and words of affirmation. I absolutely love snuggling.
• I like watching football and baseball. Only Eagles and Phillies. Sixers make me sad. Also enjoy watching Formula 1 and other smaller market sports. I unironically watch The Ocho for things like soccer with three teams and other sports that shouldn’t exist.
• I have way too many bad jokes. It’s bad enough that I should probably apologize in advance.
• I’ve recently gotten into gardening and have been planting a bunch of apple and other fruit trees.

Random stuff:

• My favorite animals are penguins! 🐧
• I have a kitty cat.
• My favorite color is blue. My house is blue, my car is blue, so many blue things..
• I listen to pretty much all music.
• If you message me please include some things about yourself. It’s difficult to have early conversation if you’re not going to at least include some of your hobbies and ask questions.

The other things, because they are important for finding someone..

• I guess I’m a depraved person when it comes to kink. Limits I would consider the typical no blood, scat, or anything that’s permanent.
• Still ultimately a soft dom and pleasure dom in my day to day. If you want me to do something specific to you that I’m not necessarily excited about, you just need to communicate it and I’ll make it happen.
• Not looking for online only, I can make travel work but it has to be regular.
• Love any sort of role play. If you think it would be fun me dressing up like a wolf and you’re dressed up like little red riding hood..
• Major past long term dynamics include CG/l and pet play beyond basic D/s dynamics.

Other kink interests are:

• Bondage/rope play but haven’t have had anyone to practice on in a while so I’m rusty with rope. D:
• Impact play, spanking, flogging, whipping, etc..
• Light to moderate degradation/humiliation.
• Breeding even though I’m getting snipped next year.
• Size difference even if it’s just toys. I’m not lacking but I enjoy it.
• Edging, forced orgasms, overstimulation.

If everything sounds fun to you, the only strict requirement is a clean STD test as I can produce the same.

More than happy to share pictures of myself if you’re open to sending pictures of yourself.