38 [M4F] #sanfrancisco - Someone to bring back the butterflies

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I am married, no kids and in a dead bedroom. Finding an AP takes a lot of time and commitment to make it work. I'm sure a lot of us on here know that already but finding that right person makes it worth it all.

Im looking for an ongoing long term AP ideally located in the Bay Area as long distance just doesn't work for me. For sexual safety reason I am looking for something exclusive. I don't need to rush into things but ideally am looking for something in person and with a person who is willing to make time.

I'm experienced and have precious APs which I can provide details about and answer questions. I would love to find someone who has good communication and open to discussing sexual desires. As well, I would like to be able to spend time with each other outside the bedroom when OPSEC works. Happy to discuss all these details if there is interest.

A little about myself: • 38 years old • 5'10 and 155lbs in good shape • located in the Bay Area • Asian American • COVID Vaccinated and STI tested regularly (I expect the same)

I am employed full time but have a flexible schedule with the right partner. Would like to exchange photos early to ensure there is mutual attraction.

If interested send me a message with what your favorite thanksgiving item is so I know you read the post. Happy holidays and good luck in your search.

Posted Dec 3, 2025, 1:26 AM UTC

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