43 [M4F] "Well...here I am."

Firstly, if you know that reference stop reading this and message me. You're perfect. 10/10. No notes.

It seems like these spaces are always filled with the same message: neglected husband, seeking a spark. That's true, of course, so the real difficulty is standing out. So here goes!

• I'm a huge fan of Joe Abercrombie. I've read most of his works.

• I love writing. I'm active on Literotica. I also take part in various writing competitions. I usually write science fiction/fantasy (with a twist of erotica).

• I'm a Star Wars nerd. Also getting into Warhammer 40k. I've started reading a few of the books and am even building one of the many armies.

• I was a professional photographer for a few years. I still enjoy doing it today, just not as often.

• Motorcycle endorsed and SCUBA certified.

• Favorite movies: Caddyshack, The Big Lebowski, Blues Brothers, Saving Private Ryan, Blade Runner, the first two Alien movies.

• Mostly a metal head, but I listen to pretty much everything.

-I love stand-up comedy. My top stand-up comedians are Bill Burr, Kyle Kinane, Dan Soder, Gary Gullman, and Nate Bargatze.

There's (obviously) a lot more but that can wait. Now for what I'm looking for.

I don't think I'm looking for anything different than was most people here are after. I'd love to find someone to chat with throughout the day, both PG and explicitly. Someone who is in a similar situation and can sympathize with wanting to feel attractive again. I'm pretty kink friendly, as far as that aspect goes.

So! If any of this rambling mess sounds enticing, drop me a message and let's chat! I would probably prefer Discord to Reddit, but I'm open to whatever else you'd prefer if we get to that point.

Otherwise, good luck and take care!