My bf is friends with a girl who likes him and I don’t know how to feel about it.

For context, I’ve been in a relationship for a little over a year, my boyfriend is great and I’ve truly never felt so connected and loved in my life. My boyfriend recently started hanging around a group of friends from work, a majority of which are girls and some of their boyfriends, and it wasn’t until about a month after they started hanging out when I finally told him that I needed to meet them — due to underlying issues regarding previous relationships. I developed friendships with all of the girls and they’re amazing and love having me around, I enjoy being with them as well. But this one girl who Is in the group, I just have this gut feeling she is interested in my bf.

The last time we all hung out, she called my bf and asked if he could pick her up and take her to the hangout session with him, I don’t know if she knew I was coming or not… but I immediately expressed my feelings regarding this and how I am uncomfortable that she even asked.

Yesterday, my boyfriend and I were together and she called and asked if he was coming into work, he was on the schedule and didn’t go for personal reasons, regardless she called and it just rubbed me the wrong way.

I’m not sure if I’m just still recovering from previous trust issues, or if it’s me overreacting.

I’ve expressed these concerns and feelings to my boyfriend and he sees exactly where I am coming from but he states that he doesn’t want to end the friendship unless if she does something to deliberately ruin not only our relationship, but his relationship with the group of friends.

I don’t want to be controlling or attack him, because technically, he’s done nothing wrong and constantly reassures me.

Advice pls

Posted Dec 3, 2025, 1:28 AM UTC

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