AITA because my fiancé is CONSTANTLY annoying me

First time poster, long time lurker… My fiance (M23) and I (F22) have been together for 3 1/2 years now, we have two children together, and overall things have been pretty good between us. The main issue I’ve been having is that I just feel annoyed maybe the last year with how he acts and inconsiderate of other people he can be. I’m a stay at home mom and he works 40-50 hours every week, but when he is home I just feel so IRRITABLE. I love him and it makes me sad I feel this way towards him. And I am wondering if I am being insensitive and an asshole or if he’s really just inconsiderate AF EXAMPLE 1: Our daughter will be 1 in a week, she is obviously curious and it is our job as parents to prevent her from getting into things she shouldn’t. When he is home he is CONSTANTLY leaving the door open even when I remind him and ask him not to literally every single day, where she can get to the toilet, the toilet brush- just obviously not an okay place for a 1 year old to hang out. EXAMPLE 2: It will be after I’ve cooked dinner, bathed both kids, got them dressed, cleaned up dinner and the kitchen, and he is still talking loudly on the phone, yelling at his video game, or just talking to me loudly across the house which I’m always reminding him to quiet down as to not disturb our children. EXAMPLE 3: Right now I’m not even chilling in our bedroom like I normally would be, I’m sitting at the kitchen table because I didn’t want to lay down at the head of the bed because he has his phone playing at such a high volume- so I sat towards the foot of the bed. He is rubbing his dry ass feet together making this nasty sound, he’s shaking his legs making the whole bed shake. I feel like he is just so inconsiderate of everyone else he is around. I don’t know if I’m I’m just nit picking his existence and if I am I will definitely look inward and work on it, but it’s so frustrating feeling like he just doesn’t consider anyone else in the household. I’m currently in the kitchen like I said and 2 rooms away, I can hear his phone blaring TikTok’s.