33 [M4F] I want to find love, fall in love and be loved

Dating / Relationship

In the back of my mind, I have this constant fear of posting here. This is my main account and my active social account for reddit and it makes me easily traceable because I know you redditors know your way around tech. But I'm exposing myself right now because I want to find love, fall in love and be loved.

My intentions are genuine and my intentions are pure. I want to find someone that will accept me for who I am and is willing to get to know me better. I'm going to listen superficial details about me so you have a brief idea of what you'll expect on a shallow level:

  • I live in the South but I'm open to drive up North or further down South if necessary.

  • I am a working professional on the Financial Technology Field and I am earning well.

  • I have an active lifestyle where I work out three to four times a week. My build is Bear-ish and my height is 5'9"

  • I am a foodie. I cook and I eat food. I know how to appreciate food.

  • I travel but I travel for food, culture and the city-scape. I enjoy the city more over nature.

  • My humor is a mix of dark and dry. It's deathly with a hint of sarcasm.

  • I am a Catholic. It's not a deal breaker by any means but I do go to Church and try to understand the word of the lord once a week. You just need to respect my views.

  • My advocacy is Children and Neurodivergence. I do volunteer work every now and then to hospitals and I donate to charity whenever I have extra.

  • I am separated and undergoing annulment. I am open to marriage again. I am open to having kids. I have no kids. This is my major deal breaker.

  • I am a fur parent. I love my cat and my cat is a big deal for me. Perhaps, even a deal breaker if you can't accept my cat.

What I'm looking for:

  • I would like to meet someone with a similar lifestyle. It's going to sound superficial but looks matter a bit but the personality is what's going to make me stay.
  • I'm looking for someone who can reciprocate love and someone actually wants to fall in love. It doesn't have to be 50-50. It can be 70-30. It can be 90-10.
  • I'm looking for someone with patience. My life is not exactly a cake-walk.
  • I'd love to find someone kind. Someone is compatible with me and my wavelength. In short, we'll only truly know this if you're open to meet-up and date. I will always ask to meet on a place that you feel secured and you believe you can go home alone after if you don't think the date was successful enough for me bring you back to your place.

If you think you fit the bill. Send me a message. Let's chat and perhaps exchange pictures or socials.

Posted Dec 3, 2025, 1:33 AM UTC

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