Should i give ger my hoodie or not....

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Hello all, i'll try to make this as simple as possibile.

Hi all im 22M and there's this 21F that I have been talking to for awhile now (like a month or two), and i've been always attracted to her ever since, even before we started talking. (we met each other and hang out within the same group for +-2 years now)

I've been giving a little of subtle signs of interest within our text conversations, date, and hangouts, and i'd like to say that i think she feels the same way as well because of how she's treating me and all (she even send me a vid of the 3rd of Dec Sweater thing on tiktok today!!!).

But, at the same time, before this in our early conversations, i remember she said she's not ready for a relationship and she doesn't want to be in 1 for awhile. There's also a few events where i felt like she tried to draw the line subtly i guess ? (some text or call session when we started to get more flirty than the usual, she tried to redirect it to something else kind of type of beat. but at the same time sometimes she doesn't as well) and there's also an event where got me thinking whether if she really likes me or not (basically just went to a party and yea u know there's lots of guys.... truth or dare games...)

So today, 3rd of December, im thinking of giving her my hoodie, she always emphasized that she wish she has a hoodie, and moreover, just recently a family member passed away so i thought this would cheer her up. But im not sure if i should? because i haven't explicitly tell her i like her and im scared of the response from it... and i dont have her address to have it delivered to her so i gotta ask her as well.

So yeah that's pretty much it... if i were to tell the whole story it'll be a long one 💀

Posted Dec 3, 2025, 1:34 AM UTC

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