iui after loss

Tw: loss and positive pregnancy

Hi, I’m sorry if this not the space to ask about this. My wife and I were lucky enough to have a successful round of unmedicated iui on our 4th try. Unfortunately we experienced a MMC at 10w. We’ve been waiting to try again, it’s been about 5 months. We were again, lucky to experience success on our first try after our loss, and I’m currently only 4 weeks.

I’m trying to see if anyone has advice, or tips for getting out of my head about this? Time is moving slowly, and all I can think about is losing it again. I’m testing to see if it’s a CP, constantly worrying. I’m trying to be in the “what will be, will be” mentality, but it’s so much HARDER than I thought omg.

Has anyone been through the same thing, and come out with a healthy baby?

Thanks for your time ❤️🌈