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29/M/UK - Kidney stone is ruining my life, any kind souls out there to distract me?

As title says, on the 28th of October I was sent to A&E with the worst pain I've felt in 29 years of living, turns out I'm in the process of passing a kidney stone. Over a month later and still not passed it. I've been bedridden, rarely see sunlight, living on painkillers, and generally having a miserable time! So could use some distracting if there's any kind yappers online :)

Some about me; Like a lot of people on these subs I'm a gamer, also into the alt scene - pushing 30 tattoos the majority of which are from games or other nerd culture stuff! Most notable favourite games that made it onto my body; Dark Souls, Halo, Star Wars, Diablo, Borderlands, Mirrors Edge, Divinity Original Sin 2, Castlevania, Hellblade Senuas Sacrifice, and Horizon Zero Dawn! But honestly I mostly play League of Legends and Fortnite these days! But I mean you can see how I look on my pfp. Into metal music, piercings/body mods, the whole shebang!

I'm a parent to 2 kids, so happy to chat with other parents! Studied Graphic Design for 5 years before university made me hate the subject but I'm still very much into art & design as a whole! I'm a big reader who reads mostly fantasy or murder-mystery. Baking and cooking make it onto my list of passions; can make a teriyaki or chocolat coca-cola cake that'd blow your mind. I'm proudly LGBTQIA+ friendly. I'm also helplessly and irrevokably lovesick as I'm in love with my best friend, so there's absolutely 0 worry of the chat being NSFW with me!

Hopefully someone out there is down to chat! Happy to also listen to any troubles and woes you may have if people are also looking for a friend, I've been told I'm pretty wise and give sage advice!

Posted Dec 3, 2025, 1:40 AM UTC

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