I feel like i’ve outgrown my friends. what now?

so for more context, a lot of my friends are in relationships and enjoy doing familiar, safe plans such as grabbing coffee or going for dinner. i feel like im at a different stage of life where i want to go out clubbing more, plan trips and make memories. my friends from college tend to organise activities with their friends from home so i don’t know how to extend my friend group or social circle to do activities like this. im in my early twenties so i feel like everyone has already branched out and made their connections but im yet to meet likeminded people. i still love my friends but i find myself getting so frustrated on occasions where it seems like everyone else my age is out having a good time but mine don’t want to go out. anyone else been in a similar position? any suggestions on how to make this happen?

Posted Dec 3, 2025, 1:41 AM UTC

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