Full description of what I’m looking for in a TPE dynamic with younger sub guy. If you’re interested.

Fair warning, this is going to be a quite long post to give some details as to what I’m looking for, my experience, and ultimate goals for this dynamic. If you read through all of it, thanks. And if you’re still interested, send me a DM.

Let’s start with the quick and dirty:

About Me: Age: 37 Location: USA - Western Height: 5’3” (short Dom) Body Type: Average Cock size: 6”

Kinks: TPE, edging, body control, precum and cum play, precum eating, water sports, bondage, chastity (not 24/7), denial, joi, tasks/chores, definitely interested exploring and experimenting with the right sub boy

Limits: scat, extreme pain, cross dressing, anal play/fucking*

• *I’m not completely against anal play or fucking, it’s just not my main source of pleasure. I enjoy edging and cock and ball play much more. If you fucking is your primary source of pleasure I will not be the right Dom for you.

About You: Age: 18-31 (sorry to the older subs out there, I know you deserve so much more attention, for me personally, I’ve always had a younger sub in mind)

Location: USA - for time difference purposes

Body Type: Twink/Athletic - you don’t have to be perfect, but I know what I like, as shallow as it sounds.

Kinks: TPE/being controlled, and others of course. But TPE is a big one.

Limits: please be communicative and tell me your limits. Almost everyone has them. And if you don’t, I will be suspicious.

Now to the nitty gritty of what I’m looking for:

I’ve been looking for the right long term sub for a few years now and haven’t had too much luck. Sometimes That’s been my fault, others it just hasn’t felt right or compatible. I understand that trying To develop a TPE based dynamic online is next to impossible. And I’m not trying to rush into anything. If your first message is something along the lines of control me daddy/master/etc… I won’t take you seriously). TPE is as much a commitment as a true relationship. And that’s what I’m trying to build.

I tend to move around quite a bit for work so in person dynamics have been difficult for me. Which is why, for better or worse, I come to Reddit. Right now I’m in Alaska for the foreseeable future. And while I’m not asking for a potential sub to be willing to move, if the dynamic works out, I would eventually like to go from online to in person. If a possible future in person dynamic is not something you’re interested in, I completely respect that, but we won’t be compatible.

My goal is to build a trusting dynamic with communication and understanding. While also having a clearly hierarchical relationship. You are the sub and I am the Dom. My job is to make you feel comfortable and cared for and hopefully eventually loved. Your job will be to perform as we’ve agreed upon.

Like I said, I’m not rushing into this. And I’m willing to go as slow as needed to build that trust between us. But I also want you to understand that We will have sexual experiences together and I doe expect to see pictures and videos of you when asked. If that’s not something you’re going to be comfortable with, I won’t be a good dom for you. I won’t ask for your face early on. If you’re comfortable showing me right away, that’s great and I will send mine. If you’re not, that’s okay, I understand. And I won’t push that. Though if we do become long term, I will want to see your face.

Ultimately, I want to build a TPE based dynamic with someone where I’m making decisions for my betterment, your betterment, and our dynamic as a whole.

So if this is something that truly interests you, send me a dm with your age, your location/time zone, some info about yourself (not just sexual), and why you’re interested in a TPE dynamic and why this post in particular.