Going to eat by yourself as a woman

I take myself out to nice dinners fairly regularly. It NEVER fails I’m not offered the same things as men or larger parties. I.e. drink menus, bread baskets, dessert menus. Which is word, because I order all of those things and ALWAYS tip my 20% even though I’m not being provided the same service as others.

It’s just annoying to go to a luxury restaurant and pay luxury prices without being given a luxury experience. Paid $210 dollars for myself tonight ( not including Ubers) to be looked at as a hassle.