41 - M4F - Looking for the person not expected to be here!

Are you the person who has their life together, a great career and a seemingly ideal family? But one who compartmentalizes this aspect of their life, needing something more because in reality it's not all perfect. I guess I'm looking for my equal!

I'm 41. Working professional by day and self described high class redneck from the land of flyover country. Keeper of the grass, cooker of the food, teller of the dad jokes. My music taste range from Garth to Lizzo. It's not the easiest to be here, but I think I need the right person to obsess over, in a good way. I want the convos, debates, good and bad days, the laughs, and the nsfw fun with someone who truly wants an affair.

As I said from the start, I want that person who I don't expect, with their life mostly together outside of this secret side. Beyond that, I tend to relate better with those my age or younger, and who are also in decent shape, able to laugh, think at a high level, located in the central time zone or close, and have the time to commit.

If you're interested, send me a chat!