27 [M4F] #Seattle #WA #PNW YOU, yes YOU, should read this post if you're a sub seeking long-term TPE.

About Me: I'm Jordan, 27, a cis male, bisexual, white, 5'9, thin, bearded, and wear glasses, happy to provide a photo/verification after a little. I live north of Seattle alone with my two cats. I work in accounting from home, so I'm usually very responsive.

Hobby wise I'm a huge nerd, I mostly play video games and board games or watch various TV shows/movies/anime. I enjoy going on hikes, foraging for edible mushrooms, and exploring nature. Hopefully we have a lot of these in common as I'd love a partner to join me in those.

What I'm Building: I am polyamorous yet currently single. My polyamory is intentional, structured, and not for everyone. I’m looking for a submissive who can thrive in a group dynamic, not just serving one person, but becoming part of something shared, layered, and meaningful. There’s a clear center/top (me), but also space for hierarchy. Some submissives may wish to lead, some may wish to follow, and others may bond through service together. You’d be primarily devoted and submissive to me, but not isolated. It's similar to polyfidelity, there's nothing casual, nothing chaotic.

As for kink, I consider myself a sadist and a lifestyle Dominant, meaning I want something as much in the bedroom/sexual as well as outside the bedroom/nonsexual. I tend to lean towards Master/Owner roles. Regarding specific kinks, I'm into just about everything, but TPE is a big deal for me.

I've been exploring kink since early adulthood, though my in-person experience is lacking by comparison. I've had several long-term/long-distance dynamics, but I am hoping to find something in person over time.

What I'm looking for:

• Someone who wants something romantic and long-term, strong and innate chemistry. I want mutual obsession.
• Extremely open-minded and/or very kinky like myself. I find that natural submissiveness (pleasure from pleasing) goes a long way here. Masochism to some degree is important.
• Wants to work towards TPE and total/absolute submission to their Dominant. For that, I need someone who sees the beauty in building trust, gradually pushing limits, and eventually surrendering in full to their Owner. I understand that's extreme and not for everyone, but it's a long-term goal.
• In Washington State, preferably nearish Seattle. If you're in the state or BC/Oregon/Idaho and not near Seattle, there's a chance it can work if we really fit well, so I'm not entirely against it.
• Shorter than me, but I'm not militant about it.
• Single or planning to be

Thanks for reading. If your pulse quickened even a little while reading this, message me and let's see what we could potentially become.