Age gap recommendations

Hi all,

I’m currently debating on the best age gap. I currently have a 13 month old. I always thought my dream age gap would be 2.5 years, and this is still mostly true. I am feeling like myself again, my hair is growing back, I’m out of the postpartum trenches and I’m nervous if I keep feeling this good I’ll delay getting pregnant again for awhile. 😂. I’m wondering if I should just try again now and have a 22-24ish age gap (if all goes well - I understand the universe has its own plans) or continue to aim more for the 2.5 year mark.

Moms with 2 under 2: What are your thoughts? Did you still feel like you gave your toddler enough quality time or do you feel like you missed out on their toddlerhood at all?

Moms with 2+ years age gap: Was it easier when first born was older and understood what it meant to have a sibling more?

Thanks for the input, moms!