Her evil transcends death

[Rant/Vent]

So, my mother died in October. I spent so much time as an adult with no contact that her passing meant nothing. However, one of my siblings did spend time with her, took care of her, ran errands, took her out to lunch etc until the last year of my mother's life. My mom couldn't throw her vitriol at me or any other sibling since we were all no contact, so my one sibling got hit with all of it. They reached their limit and went NC. My mother had promised this sibling that a certain item of our dad's would go to them when she died, as well as some of his ashes. Turns out, my mother put a section in her will that this sibling was to receive nothing. Not a single effin thing. Oh, and that a "loan" was to be paid back in full even though she said that once she was dead, the debt was settled. So not only does this sibling get nothing, they are going to be sued because my mother couldn't even die without hurting one of us. She chose the one who would be hurt the most and twisted the proverbial knife. So for those who still harbor the hope that their parents can and will change, chances are that will never happen. Closure involves seeing the situation exactly as it is and making life decisions based on that. See your parents exactly as they are, not who you wish they were.

Posted Dec 3, 2025, 1:49 AM UTC

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