Anyone else pass well but can't malefail?

My transition is going fine. Nearly completed with voice training with a speech therapist. I'm fully out in my personal life. I even have a social life I'm really stealth in that includes lots of women (many cis, i know because the GCs I'm in talk about their periods occasionally but I know a fellow stealth there too).

I pass well when I'm dressed in gender affirming clothing, even if it's t-shirt + pushup bra and jeans. No looks at all in female public restrooms. Get called ma'am and miss by service staff. Even when they're annoyed with me ('step one side girl, miss the payment didn't go through').

So why the 'humble bragging'? Well...

I still can't malefail! If I'm dressed lazily like a boy (baggy shirt no bra or jacket, ugly basketball shorts, uncombed hair)... I just get called 'brother' or 'sir'. Usually in these interactions they're very brief and I haven't had the chance to speak yet.

It's a bit frustrating. My close friends reassure me that this doesn't really matter much because what's most important is that I pass when I'm dressed gender conforming. Ultimately I do agree. Maybe I'm just unintentionally good at crossdressing as a guy? I guess trans mascs would envy it.

Anyone else relate to the idea that they can't malefail even though they pass otherwise? I'm not really sure how to feel about it - I guess apathetic? It would be nice to be so feminine looking I'd be unable to pass as a guy at all and always malefail, but I don't think FFS is worth it just for that. I don't even feel that dysphoric in my face in the mirror other than the usual eyebrow ridge insecurity most of us have.