Trans Femme Partner

Hi everyone! My wife (mtf) has been out for about 5 years (on hrt for 4) and we’ve been together for 7 (married for nearly 6). Since coming out she talks only about how hot trans women are all the time. We’re poly and she only dates trans women, she goes out of her way to talk about how specifically trans women are goddesses and ethereal (which like, fair, I think she’s incredibly attractive and super hot) but she never says that about cis/nb people. (I’m nb but present pretty much like a mascish lesbian). Has anyone else dealt with something like this? I just feel self conscious all the time. She’ll say how hot her girlfriends are and then say something like “and you’re some creature from the forest” which is like a joke about non binary people, not offensive. I just feel like she’s so caught up in her transition that she doesn’t want anyone who’s cis adjacent in her life