Normally a question like this comes up a lot in my life.....

PERSONAL

But here are three reasons I am never having children:

  1. The expenses that come with it especially if there's multiple children to take care of, I wouldn't have the time to pay for basic expenses for them.
  2. The uncertainty about the future of jobs and education, I feel as though the future of jobs and education will negatively affect the child since the world is changing so much. I wouldn't want to see any children suffering.
  3. Children take up valuable time having children isn't just mapping out the expenses but rather a lifelong devotion which I don't have the time to deal with especially with me doing a full-time job working from morning until late at night.

Sometimes my parents especially my dad, they think I'll ever change my mind, I question "What if you're wrong and I'm stuck with a child I never wanted for the rest of my life?" which is what I often ask myself.

I've always been supportive of people who want children, none of this is to upset anyone.

Posted Dec 3, 2025, 1:54 AM UTC

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