This genuinely is meant to be more lighthearted

TW: Eating Disorders / Self Image

Made the title a forewarning because I obvs don’t hate all men or think all men are the issue.

But like God it is so amazing how unaware you guys can be. Like I live with my bf and text him asking abt turkey breasts and getting one or two. He texts me back over 40 mins later saying one RIGHT AFTER I paid. Nbd right??

I am not the strongest girl and lugged two baskets around a store for over 40 mins, both heavy. I get it to my car. I get home.

I wait. Contemplate texting to ask for help, but him texting after 40 mins on delivered means he is most def gaming. I dread going upstairs with this over 50 lbs of grocery items.

Again. I am not a strong girl. I can lift weights but I cannot easily walk around with 50 lbs. it’s maybe less than 100 ft from my car to my apartment (give or take including the stairs I can’t rlly measure well). I HAVE TO STOP THREE TIMES FOR A MIN EACH.

This man. Does not. Once look up from his game to look out the window to see his gf struggling to haul the entire weight of a store (exaggerating lol). But he does leave the door unlocked for me so at least I don’t have to open the door!!

I was actually frustrated because he loves these games that are like over 40 mins (think like apex or smth) per round or wtv. He can’t pause. This has been an issue but I feel bad if I make it an issue again bc like. Ik the premise of the game. I could have texted. But I don’t wanna spend the next hr sitting in my car waiting for him to help.

Idk. Men suck. I’m abt to get my period. Oh well.

Posted Dec 3, 2025, 1:54 AM UTC

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