Bullying/Harassment

There’s something that’s been on my mind and bothering me and I don’t know who to talk to. I’m M16 11th grade and there’s been a group of guys who constantly bother/slightly harass me. For context I’m not the most masculine person ever. I’m a straight, cis male, but most people assume I’m gay. (While I have a girlfriend 😭) It doesn’t bother me too much though and I have nothing against people who are part of the LGBTQ community. Anyways this group of guys during my 9th period class will say the most outlandish and wild things to me that usually wouldn’t bother, but since it happens so much it urks me. A list of things they’ve said/called me are: Gay, Trans Furry, Lesbian, the f slur, fat, ugly/chopped, I should die, and others that I might’ve forgotten. Again I have nothing against gay or trans people, but being labeled something I’m not bothers me. I talked to the assistant principal for my grade, (at that time I only told him about one of the guys in the group) gave him a written list of things he said and at what times he did, and he told me that I need to tell my parents about it because he doesn’t feel comfortable saying it to them, and that he’ll call the kid and bring them down later. The day went on and by the time it was 9th period I heard what had happened to him. The principal asked him the things he said, and he denied them, he then said that he was going to call his parents and the teacher was going to write a referral. A day or two went by, heard nothing of his parents being called, and the teacher told him that she never wrote anything. I found this crazy because I was in an incident earlier in the month where I was walking down the hall with my friend, saw someone I used to know who is a furry, told them hey he’s a furry, and he overheard and punched my shoulder. I got talked to the assistant principal and I got a phone call home and he said I could be suspended. My thing was one time, and I got a phone call home, compared to this guy and his friends who do it daily to me and yet he got away with no punishment. This is still on going too, and I don’t know what to do now. Some people would think the teacher would overhear, but she’s a deaf old lady. Now it’s more than just comments too, one of the guys in the group purposely broke a tower we were making for a lab, and the teacher never said anything, even after seeing. The comments had also messed with me a lot, I hate going to my 9th period, fearing of more comments. I’m scared that if I bring this up again, still nothing will happen. Sorry about how long this is but can anyone give any advice on what I should do?

I posted this in a different reddit post area whatever but no one responded so I thought maybe I’d try my luck here. Only update to this is that they’re still continuing, but today I wrote down a bunch of things they said on paper because I’m genuinely fed up.

Posted Dec 3, 2025, 1:56 AM UTC

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