Blew up over pre dinner actions.

30m was cooking dinner while wife too son to practice. She knew this was the case and that I planned to have it ready to serve by the time she returned. I was trying a new recipe and was excited to serve it. Upon return she begins unboxing Amazon deliveries with kitchen items on the counter that I am serving everything from and also where we sit to eat. I express my frustration considering the huge mess that this was creating and the fact that I clean as I cook so as to not have a mess to clean after eating. She said I was out of pocket for reacting and feeling the way I did. I fed our youngest son and put up the rest of dinner after telling her to serve her own plate and I myself did not eat. Aitah?