Am I asking for too much?

Me f(22) and my bf(24) have lived together for over a year and I have brought up in the past that I think it’s important for us to greet each other when we get home and maybe hug. Lately I have been having to ask for hugs and I’ve only gotten side hugs and when I expressed this bothers me I am told that I’m addicting to auguring and if I was nicer maybe he would want to hug me. He says, I say every night that he’s not enough. I have asked that we go to bed and wake up together and have some time just the two of us before bed and this has been unsuccessful. I don’t want to waste two years of my life and just move out but tonight after arguing when I asked if he would meet me halfway and give me a real hug he said No and went straight to playing video games with his friends. Should I just man up and leave or am I nitpicking?