A girl i hooked up with ghosted me the same day we hooked up. 5 months later she hits me up and finally told me why.

Small decision

Okay so this is my first post so if you guys need any clarification or have any questions just lmk also sorry if there’s any errors i’m multitasking writing this and doing homework so LMAO

so i’m 21 (F). The girl i hooked up with i met through a dating app. we talked on and off earlier this year. and then randomly in the summer she texted me to meet up and obviously i was down. so we met up i bought her breakfast and everything and we ate and chilled and then after we hooked up and it was really good. i left a few hours after because i had class. and then i never heard from her again lmaooo. she’d watch my stories and everything so obviously im thinking maybe i did something wrong. like maybe something i did turned her off. ik its a dating app so getting ghosted is common and also im not looking for a relationship at all rn just hooking up and casual dating for now so obviously she doesn’t owe me an explanation but idk i feel like since we got as far as hooking up she could’ve done the decency of atleast giving me a heads up or something. So anyways 5 months later of being ghosted she texts me saying hey. and i was so shocked like actually. and her explanation was that she was back w her ex and she didn’t feel it was right to text me. now guys it FEELS like she cheated on her ex with me lowkey. maybe like a guilty conscience? bc i was ghosted the SAME day. and then now she says this. like if she had told me she was back w her ex i wouldn’t have even been mad bc again, you don’t owe me anything just a heads up and i would’ve been like okay lmk when they’re out the picture!! or something lmao. idk but she wants to meet up again and i don’t think i should but it was really good so that’s why im conflicted lol. i just need to know if anyone’s been in this situation before. maybe i shouldn’t take it to heart? or maybe i should. let me know!!!

Posted Dec 3, 2025, 1:58 AM UTC

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