AITAH for wanting to move seats

Recently in my digital arts class for college I was sitting at a table with two other boys and three girls. In class the day before thanksgiving our teacher is really nice so she didn’t give us any homework. Everyone was talking to each other and I was talking to the girl who sits next to me, well call her O. O was asking a few questions about me being trans(ftm) and stuff. Eventually O started talking about some other things, flirty things I don’t really want to repeat.

She was telling me how she wanted to f**k me and stuff and recently I was diagnosed as on the spectrum so I wasn’t really sure how to handle it. I, myself, couldn’t even tell if I was uncomfortable or not while it was happening but after class I could think about it more and I was really uncomfortable with that.

I’m a pretty socially anxious person so I didn’t know how to handle it. I basically just talked to the teacher about wanting to move seats(not about the flirting thing) and she agreed. Since we’d had the same seats for a while she just moved the entire class around and I ended up at a new table sitting next to someone new. It’s been two days and I’m already liking it better. The guy I’m sitting next to is this dorky scrawny guy with comically round glasses. We haven’t talked much but he seems cool.

I’m just feeling bad about asking to move seats instead of just maybe talking to O about not liking the flirting. I don’t really think she was trying to be creepy or anything. Probably just a horny young adult like most of us and I wasn’t clear enough about how I was feeling, since I wasn’t even sure myself. So AITAH?

Posted Dec 3, 2025, 2:00 AM UTC

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