a question

hi, everyone! 🙂 just a question, is it common thing for a person with bpd in a relationship to have a Emotional Shutdown or either be low energy and don’t text your partner back for days/weeks? my girlfriend is going trough that pattern right now and some other opinions/advice how i can cope during this difficult time would keep a lot, i’m going trough it right now. i miss her a lot and want to give her space while she needs it. she gets annoyed if i spam her whenever she needs space or self isolates.