50 [M4F] #Ohio / USA - Bring some fun back into having an affair

I'm looking for something different. That lurker that is scared to pull the trigger or maybe someone that just wants to have some fun (but make that clear in your DM.

I'm not trying to rant here but this place has gotten really difficult to be myself. Here's the rules that I've seen in the last week from potential affair partners.

1. They don't share pictures this early on.

• There has been a total of zero times that someone has said this and they have been attractive on the other end. I get it. some of you are demisexuals and while I'm not everyone's type I at least like to see if there's some physical attraction. This isn't a blind date and why waste time getting to know each other if you can't look at them and be attracted?

2. You're not very engaging - this coming from women who ask zero questions or answer with one word sentences. How can we get to know each other or do you just want to sext?

3. Moving too slow with spicy conversations - in the first day of chatting

4. Moving too fast with spicy conversations - in the first day of chatting

5. Starting an intro then disappearing

6. Moving to telegram then instantly disappearing

So what am I looking for? Someone genuine and honest that won't play games. Tell me what you want and what you don't want and be fun. Joke around, be engaging, and communicate. Online is tough. Everyone is different and while part of the challenge is getting to know each other and figure each other out that's really hard to do with one word answers.

I promise to chat your ear off. Not your thing then ok. Want to sext? I'm good with that too. Want to take it slow... all good just let me know.

Exchanging pictures after intros and not ghosting are two hard requirements that I have. I don't have a specific type but please be conventionally attractive. I'm also not into obese or plus size ladies. I take care of myself and you should too. I also am into a D/s dynamic with you being the s. IYKYK.

Here's a little of my back story:

I'm currently in central Ohio living a lie. Its getting harder and harder to play house with someone I don't truly love. If I did why else would I be here? I want my situation to change. Not necessarily the leaving my wife kind, but I want some happiness and to be treated the way I feel like I should be. I want to have a torrid love affair that would want me to make me leave my wife. Hell... maybe I will eventually. For now I'm looking for something real.

I want to feel my lover's breath on my neck while I kiss hers. The touch of her soft skin against mine. Her hand in mine as we walk and her sweat when we workout together or go for a strenuous hike.

Ideally I would prefer someone that is available for overnights. I travel a metric ton for work so it would be ideal if you travel too and we can meet up.

Here's the obligatory about me: I'm tall, attractive, HWP, athletic, groomed beard, and a full head of salt / pepper hair, and tattoos. I have a great sense of humor and can pretty goofy but you won't see that right away. I have to trust the person to break down that wall. I love music... mainly metal but my Playlist is pretty eclectic. I go to at least one live concert a month. My brain is full of car knowledge and tech more than sports. I'm well educated but not in the traditional sense....I have a high IQ with the inability to sit and listen to lectures. I have a great job that affords me the ability to travel pretty much anywhere in the USA.

Please no sex workers (don't even try), no dudes, and no ghosting. Be adult enough to state your opinion. Being left hanging is a horrible feeling and shows a huge lack of communication skills.

Send me a chat or DM and let's see where this goes if you haven't already yeeted yourself from this brain dump.