do i bring this up to my husband?

hi all! me 25 F , and my husband 26 M have been married since June 2025. we’ve been together for almost 6 years. a tiny bit of back story, we have a pretty okay sex life. he used to reject me a lot and just pleasure himself when i’m not around, we’ve sort of worked through that and we have sex like once a week or every 2 weeks because of our schedules and we just don’t have the energy. ANYWAYS, i got bored and went through his phone, we trust each other and neither of us minds if the other goes through our phone so this isn’t anything more than me just simply wanting to play games on his phone. i saw this new app he downloaded and i clicked on it out of curiosity and its a storage app. he had some anime pxrn on there and the videos are like 10+ minutes long. it does bother me a tiny bit because its animated (just a preference, just not for me), but you can also chat on this storage app, collab with people, share things, etc. it’s called Mega. he hasn’t chatted or shared anything. my question is, should i just let it go and not worry about it or should i discuss with him that it bothers me? i don’t care about him watching pxrn, neither of us are threatened by that. it bothers me that he downloaded the app and “hid” it.

any advice is appreciated! thank you ❤️

Posted Dec 4, 2025, 2:37 AM UTC

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