Totally blown away
I (28f) took all four tests (mentioned in the community highlights) just now and am appalled by the results. The first one, the 16 question narc test, was a zero, with nine or more being considered narcissistic; the second one, the vulnerable narc, was a 32, with 25 being the baseline for that type of narcissism; the third, the codependency one, I couldn’t get beyond two sections without already having checked at least 10 of the characteristics (six is the minimum for being considered codependent); and the final but not the least by any means, the OCD test I scored a 45 😭 with 22 being the minimum score to be considered OCD.
I’m processing but slowly and don’t really know where to go from here. I knew I had issues touching things, with germs and certain textures, and issues with checking the window locks eight times a night before bed, but I wouldn’t have labeled it as extreme until now! The vulnerable narc one I am not as surprised as I am pretty aware of those type of traits and had already been piecing those two together, but still seeking advice/support. The results of the first test also don’t make total sense to me, how can I score a zero—- And the codependency, well I was fully aware of I didn’t even bother reading them all just accepted my fate about half way through the list 🥲🖤
Yes I am seeking therapy, can anyone suggest a good online source as well :)
Posted Dec 4, 2025, 2:42 AM UTC