The Side effect people don’t talk about, an undisciplined tongue:

Growing up I’ve never been an elegant speaker, I’ve always had more of a strong suit writing.

What I noticed over the months of retaining is that I am more prone to say things that come out to the wrong audience, or even things that can be callous or arrogant. Ive been aware of this issue for the last few months now and yet it seems to happen quite a bit more.

Watch your words when speaking with someone, you may be tearing a relationship down instead of building it.

Has anyone else noticed this in themselves since retaining?