28 [M4F] A genuine but casual connection, and getting to know each other through kink #Online
Hello r/femdompersonals - I’m Will, M 28.
First, I have some prompts for other subreddits and an introductory pinned post on my page if you’d like to see some of my writing and general vibe.
What I am effectively always looking for, though, is someone that I can get along with and openly chat about every day things and sex in a friendly, casual manner. If we hit it off, some mutual masturbation and sharing some of the hot things we find on Reddit would be a great addition! But I am primarily looking for someone with whom I can enjoy regular conversation about the things I wouldn’t speak to my IRL friends about.
Obviously, the first major element/kink is femdom. I’m open to a very gentle pleasure domme who will do, at most, a bit of teasing, or a domme that would like to be very cruel, demeaning, and strict, or anywhere in between. A vital part of this casual online friendship-with-virtual-benefits would be a genuine connection out of character. I’m happy to submit, but let’s make sure we get along first!
Obviously, anonymity is a key part of this arrangement I’m seeking. Accordingly, I will not send you any pictures of myself, and I do not want you to send any pictures of yourself to me. I would just like an online friend to discuss kink with and perhaps get off with, and even share some porn we’ve found online, but exchanging IRL pictures is a bridge too far for what I’m looking for. Physical descriptions are welcome, though.
As for my kinks, the pinned post on my page explains them best. But in brief, I love facesitting, orgasm control, ruined orgasms, chastity, body worship, feet, bondage, humiliation/degradation, spit, and scent/sweat. None are an absolute requirement.
My limits include anything to do with someone underage or an animal, blood/gore, feminization or sissy, extreme CBT or sounding, and DDLG.
Please send me a message including your name (or at least a name I can call you), IRL age, and some kinks and limits. Part of the fun is discussing what we’re into, so the kinks can be brief, but please advise if your limits straight away.
Also, I exclusively chat here on Reddit, so I’m not willing to move to discord or any other platform. I understand if that’s a dealbreaker for some.
I’d love to get to know each other in a causal, online-only environment, and become friends who just happen to have a lot in common sexually and make each other’s lives a little bit more fun. Thank you for reading!
Posted Dec 4, 2025, 2:45 AM UTC