Husbands sister was out of the house for once, and what does he do? Play video games with his buddies

Vent, Advice Welcome

To make a long tale short my husband (31m) and I (28f) haven’t had much time to ourselves because his younger sister (20f, he was a whoops baby when his parents were very young) has been living with us.

It’s been a month. We both work a lot and she’s always here when we’re both home. I get home from work and he’s playing video games. I go for a shower and come out in my fancy underwear and he turns around, looks at me, thin-smiles and turns back to his game.

I’d get it if he doesn’t play games much, but he plays video games daily. Ans this is the third time over this month long dry spell that he chose video games over my very obvious advances

Frankly seeing him repeatedly choose gaming over me is killing my attraction to him. If he were to put the games down right now and come to me I wouldn’t be interested tonight. It feels very childish to put playing cowboys before taking care of our relationship. Especially because again, he can and does play whenever, where as we get minimal alone time.

Posted Dec 4, 2025, 2:46 AM UTC

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