53 [M4F] #Pittsburgh - No BDSM Polar Bear Plunge

I’m sure you’ve seen people jumping into freezing cold rivers and other bodies of water in the winter. They jump in…skin tightens, heart races….

I’m suggesting taking a slightly more cautious approach when it comes to D/s. I’m suggesting we dip our toes in, ease in, build some tolerance, trust that someone will throw you a line to get back to shore.

Then, as we build tolerance and trust, venture more, be more bold.

Is this a perfect analogy? Prolly not…lol…but you get the idea.

Let’s start with a chat here….if we click, let’s make a plan to meet. If the in person vibe matches, we can take it from there. But let’s start slow, build trust, over communicate, and have fun.

Whaddya say?