How did you overcome more smear campaigns from an ex-TLP?

In my case it was brutal. In just two weeks they went from loving me, considering me one more, being part of their family, plans of friends (who told me they loved and appreciated and I felt that way), to being blocked by ALL of them at the same time (same weekend), on all social networks, expelled from all WhatsApp groups, and I imagine, terribly defamed.

What happened in between, that I left the relationship.

It hurt me, and it still hurts me 3 months later, to think about all those people who loved me. They closed ranks, I know it was out of loyalty, probably without really understanding what had happened so that suddenly, from adoring me, I became the evil of the century and they all had to carry out such an expulsion.

We live 80 km apart, so our environments after the breakup do not match, but it still affects me a lot, I remember many of those people, and I don't know how to manage all this. I'm not talking about my reputation, but about transcending all the pain that the injustice and asymmetry of such a discard causes me when I have given EVERYTHING.

I am infinitely grateful for any contribution.