20[F4M] #Online - Looking for a Daddy Dom for Training and Structure

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Hello! I’m a 20 year old college student searching for a Daddy Dom that has a fun personality to introduce some training and structure in my life! Im looking for something intimate and long term, so if that’s also you then you’re in the right place! If you have any questions, PLEASE ask.

What I’m looking for in the dynamic and in you:

  • Im looking for someone with some BDSM experience, preferably more than just the basics. I want to explore the more tame aspects of submission first, before moving to the more intense things
  • In the dynamic, I’d like to be provided with scheduled anal training, oral training, and other submissive behaviors and such.
  • I’d like some type of mixture between tasks that I complete on my own time, and more of “live” sessions where we interact with each other over some form of messaging.
  • I’d like to explore aspects of lifestyle control/domination. Things such as diet, workouts, water drinking, bedtimes, studying, etc.

What I’m NOT looking for in you or the dynamic:

  • 24/7 TPE, we both have lives outside of kink and let’s try to be respectful of that! My “vanilla” life will always take priority, and it is okay for yours to do the same!
  • I’m not looking for someone who’s rude, impatient, or just here to jerk off and disappear. I want something genuine that’s built off of trust and mutual respect.
  • I’m not looking to be your personal pornstar. As I stated before, I’m looking for something genuine, and I don’t feel that’s possible for me if photos are your main motivation. Among several other reasons, this is why I’m not doing pictures, at all. There’s no expectation for you to send any either.
  • Voice or video calls. Just looking for messaging and extensions of that! I don’t mind moving to other apps if that’s your preference. But please respect my privacy and I’ll do the same for yours!

Kinks and Limits:

  • Kinks/Interests: Training, DDLG, anal, deepthroating, spanking, spit play, enemas, figging, belly inflation, pain play, pillow humping, praise, bondage, cnc, edging, orgasm control
  • Limits/Dislikes: Piss, scat, blood, humiliation, exposure, public, involving others irl, body writing, outfit control

In the Long Term…

  • I want to be able to give up a significant amount of control to my daddy. This can be when to have my orgasms, but also if I even have them at all.
  • This control can also be when I do daily activities like eating, workouts or studying, to what times I eat every day.
  • I want you to know when to say yes, when to force an orgasm or guide masturbation when I don’t want to. I also want you to know when to say no, taking those things away in an instant whenever needed.
  • I don’t have any toys right now but I want us to go toy shopping together! This is a fun and intimate activity to me :) (not immediately but not too far into the future)

I love trying new things! So please bring up any interest you may have that I didn’t list here :)

Congrats on making it this far! I appreciate the time you look to read my post. I put a lot of effort into it and I’d appreciate if that was reciprocated. So if you do message me, I’d love to see more than a “hey”. Please include the word “blue” somewhere in your initial message. Feel free to get creative with it :)

I don’t enjoy small talk, let’s get right into it.

Posted Dec 4, 2025, 9:38 PM UTC · locked

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