Roleplaying info!

Hello, hello! This will be quite a long read so make yourself comfortable and grab some popcorns since I’ll be rambling for a while! You can find the extra fandoms at the end, but everything is valid for the extra fandom as well! I want to thank you beforehand for opening this post. Whether you’ll read it all, skim through, or ignore it, thank you for the time you’re dedicating to me!

So, I believe an introduction of who I am is mandatory before explaining what I’m looking for, right? :) I’m Nel or, if you prefer, Tea. I’m a college student who’s been roleplaying for several years now and I’ve been into Erotic Roleplaying for at least 5. I write in third person and, for ERPs, I exclusively play as male — exception made for those rare occasions in which I was the GM. I write a lot; I roleplay on Discord and breaching the 2k limit isn’t rare if I have enough to work with! Do I consider myself a novella-length writer? No, english isn’t my native language so my length and quality aren’t enough to be considered one. However, I do enjoy rich descriptions, detailed expressions, and a good grammar :)

How often do I reply considering I’m a college student? I can’t guarantee a daily reply, but I’ll always try my best to give you one at least. Will I disappear though? No, if I can’t give you a reply that day, I’ll let you know!

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Now, let’s start talking about some aspects of the roleplay! The setting, fandom, and other elements will be discussed later, but let’s take a moment to talk about the erotic side. If you’re reading this, you should be aware that I’m looking for an ERP. That’s what this is all about so smut, or sex, is a big part of the roleplay. BUT —there’s always a but— I consider excessive sexual content to ruin the experience. Don’t get me wrong, I LOVE steamy moments and I’m looking forward to have maaaaaany sex scenes — from wholesome, romantic scenes to carnal, mindless breeding or even casual ones in abandoned alleys or whatever. I love them all. However, this is a long term roleplay and if we’re going to describe two characters railing each other every two irl days… yeah, no, I’d see porn and be done with it. So, all this to say what exactly? I want smut, a lot of smut, but I want a LOT of story as well. Sex to me is an exquisite side dish that accompanies the main one. Too much of it and you don’t have space for the main one which is what I’m here for.

Quick note: to reach a compromise between lots of story and the erp vibe, I usually like to include hentai logic. No, not that all female characters will drool for my boy’s dick, but… if you have seen anime like Highschool DXD, To Love Ru, and such… yeah, that. Tripping, wardrobe malfunction, and other really embarrassing moments that can be borderline sex scenes!

What kind of story would I be looking for? Well, the thing is that I don’t know much of most of the fandoms I’m interested in (exceptions made for Bleach, Naruto, Solo Leveling, and Dragonball). I have some very basic Fate knowledge (I’ve seen the HF trilogy and UBW back then) while I know nothing about Highschool DXD besides Rias’ name. This said, what I’d be looking for is to explore the world, their characters, interact with them, and come up with a compelling story together! Yes, I’ll play as one character, but I won’t leech off your back for the whole ride; I’ll help with the server management, plot points, characters management and development, and what not! I LOVE dark themes, both in the story and smut, but I also really enjoy slice of life episodes, romantic moments, and some less intense beats. The optimum would be to find a nice balance between the two :)

Do I have some ideas already? Yes, but actually no. I have a draft ready for DXD and an idea for both Bleach, Solo Levelling, and Dragonball, but everything is up to debate! I have them because… well, I wrote down the character for a previous DXD rp I’ve been ghosted on and same thing with DB and the other two — except they ghosted me before even creating a server.

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Okay, if you’re still here and I haven’t scared you away, let’s continue! Who am I looking for? Well, the main traits I’m looking in a partner are: friendliness, respect, honesty, effort and passion! :)

Let’s start with friendliness! As you can imagine, I’m looking for someone I can joke with, talk about interests, hobbies and what not! I love OOC and consider it as important as the roleplay itself. No, no personal boundaries will ever be crossed without prior consent. I’ll never ask your name, city, or make any request that might put you at unease. If that happens, I ask you to let me know and I’ll never do that again. However, I’d love to meet with someone who is willing to chat every now and then, who isn’t afraid of clear communication, and you know, become friends with over time!

Talking about communication, honesty and respect… these are mandatory. Jokes are fine, I like darker jokes and I sometimes do them myself, but at no point either of us must say derogatory stuff about the other. Yeah, “you’re a dumbass,” “such a nerd,”“man, what a cretin,” or other things on that line are fine, but the moment one of us gets too personal, it’s over. I’m saying “us,” but I can guarantee for myself so I’m talking about you. On top of that, we’re not entitled to each other’s time. Unless someone disappears for more than a week with no warning whatsoever, please be patient (some might be surprised to hear this, but patience is a form of respect)! Okay, last two points: effort and passion! You’re going to be the GM, I’m going to be the player, but at no point in time I’m going to leech off your shoulders. At the same time, please, don’t make me do everything and don’t make me come up with all the ideas. I’ve talked about patience and I mean what I said, but if I have radio silence for more than a week with no ooc communication or participation other than “yeah, that sounds good!” Or “I like that!” I’m ending it there. I’m looking for partners, not chatbots that respond only when interrogated. [The password is… there’s no password :) I’m going to ask about the password, if you’ve read this far just tell me there’s no password or include it in your first message!]

As for passion, I mean someone who knows the fandom and is enthusiastic about it. NO amount of passion is excessive; if you want to spoil me the whole lore, if you want to change things, or explain the intricate details and nuances of certain characters and plot points… please do! I LOVE that! I’m trying to become a writer myself and I do get pretty passionate about what I write. Meeting with someone who shares these qualities is only a plus for me!

Ah, this should be obvious, but I’ve seen many people complaint about it recently: no AI writers, thanks :)

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My kinks and limits will be included in the comments since this post is already long enough as is. The only ones I’d really really love to include are: Kissing (from smooches to deep sloppy ones), harem, non con, F4F (between NPCs), drama, switch, and romance.

Extra Fandoms (no knowledge): Genshin Impact, Honkai: Star Rail, Blue Archive, Arknights, OPM

Extra Fandom (have knowledge): Dragonball, Naruto, Solo Leveling

Feel free to propose one of your own if these ones aren’t your thing!

And that’s it! I should have said everything, it would be pretty embarrassing if I’d forgotten something… oh well, I hope not! Please put some effort in your first message! If you have any questions, even if you’re unsure about joining or sending a message at all, please don’t be intimidated! I might have sounded harsh, but I always try my best to be polite and friendly so don’t hesitate! Thank you for having reached this far! Here’s a cookie for you :) 🍪 I hope to hear from you soon!!!