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bluezenither

do i last too long?

Libido and Stamina

i got married recently. i’ve found i can last really really long with my wife, up to 3 hours, something i’ve not been able to do when masturbating (maximum 5 minutes lol)…

my average time is about an hour, but i can go longer pretty easily - of course - with a minute or two break to catch my breath and drink water.

when i end up lasting super long, my penis goes numb around the hour mark, but it still feels really good.

my wife loves that i can last super long and prolong the feeling, and so do i, but could this be a sign of an underlying issue?

edit: repost because rule break

Posted Dec 4, 2025, 9:45 PM UTC

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